to
keep it a secret, they announce it in public. This system of marriage
is known as "kaligisunam".
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(2)
Sometimes, the lovers themselves do not announce their love affairs,
but it is conveyed by the mediators to their parents. In such cases
the parents of both sides may contact each other and propose the
marriage. This way of marriage is called "yam ne tannam".
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(3)
The most common way of marriage is "midang". In such a
type of marriage, only parents wish is important. The parents of
either side search for a suitable match and the girl and the boy
accept their wish and will.
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(4)
Another way known as "duglanam" can be compared to
the "gandharva" system prevalent in ancient India among
Aryans. The Missing marriage ceremony is an affair of pomp and show.
Pigs and fowls are sacrificed to the gods and cooked. The relatives
and the village members of both the sides are invited. The bride
and the groom eat in the same dish. After that the couple seek the
blessings of the elders. The participants eat, drink, sing and dance
for two days. At the end, the party of the groom is sent off with
offerings. The bride comes to the groom’s house.
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12.
Like most of the tribes, the Missings are animists. Out of fear
of natural forces, they believed that due to displeasure of "uyu"
spirit of the nature, many sufferings were caused. Thus the worship
of "uyu" came into being.
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Mythology
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First
of all there was "keyum" (nothingness). The following
folk song vividly describes the status of "keyum" and
the emergence of this world.
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mikamangai
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mimang
kimangai
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donyi
kamangai
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polo
kamangai
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asi
kamangai
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among
kamangai
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sedimelo
rulento
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donyipolome
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among
modiyem
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uming
esarem
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rugzi
merangem
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abu
taniyem
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nolu
taniye
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abutaniko
omange
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regi
regam dolokke
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koryila
gidung*
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Free
translation of the song : There was neither man
nor animal. Neither the sun, the moon and the stars were there nor
was there this earth and water on it. "Sedi" and "melo"
made them all. He made the sun and the moon, he made the earth,
fire and air, animals and creepers and at last he made men and women.
We are men and women, the descendants of "Abutani" (the
first man made by Sedibabu). We descended from "Regi-regai
(Heaven)".
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Thus,
Sedi and Melonan are the creators of this world. Abutani was created
by the union of Mother Sun abd Father Moon. Doying-babu was created
as the God of Knowledge and Wisdom, who differentiated the speeches
of different animals and gave them the senses to differentiate things,
so that each object was given its respective name.
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The
Missing bury their dead.
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The
Missings do not believe in rebirth. The souls, after death, are
worshipped by them. They have a belief that if the souls of the
dead are displeased, calamity will befall them in the shape of illness,
death of a family member or in other similar ways. Apart from this,
there are many superstitions that the Missing believe in. They believe
that every where, there is ‘uyi’ (evil spirit) which causes untold
sufferings if it is not appeased with sacrifice of pigs and other
animals.
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